Navigating love, again

Hey, sis!

If you're reading this, chances are you're someone who has been through a tough season— maybe not a divorce like myself, but a season that made you question everything. First of all, let me say that you are strong, beautiful, and loved, and I'm here to remind you that there's hope and healing on the horizon. That relationship, that job, that friendship, whatever it was you may feel you lost was not yours to hold onto. It was a borrowed experience to teach, stretch, and enrich you with wisdom to land you in the now. 

Dating after heartbreak can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, but trust me when I say that God's timing is always perfect, even when it feels like it's taking forever to see His promises come to pass. I know how much you desire a loving and fulfilling relationship, but it’s important to remember God is orchestrating your story. The worst thing we can do is rush His timing or manipulate things to make our waiting easier. 

Psalm 27:14 - "Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!"

Patience is not always our strong suit, especially when we're eager for something as beautiful as love. But remember, God's plans are worth the wait. Take this time to grow, heal, and rediscover who you are as an individual, for it's in this process that you'll become even more prepared for the right person when they come along. 

Proverbs 3:5-6 - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths."

There is love all around you, and being in a relationship doesn't define you or equate to being worthy. Navigating the dating world can feel overwhelming, especially after a painful experience like heartbreak. But don't forget to lean on God's understanding and guidance. Be open to His lead, and He'll steer you in the right direction. Remember, it's not about finding the perfect person, but rather finding the one who aligns with God's plan for your life.

Sometimes, waiting can feel like the worst thing, and it's easy to become discouraged. But remember, during this season of singleness, God is renewing your strength and molding you into the person you're meant to be. Paul writes that singleness is a GIFT. I know we would probably never describe it that way, but it truly is a time to develop yourself and deepen your relationship with God. 

• Embrace the Season: Instead of dwelling on the delay, embrace this season of singleness as an opportunity for personal growth, self-love, and spiritual development. Trust that God is using this time to prepare you and your future partner for a beautiful union.
  

• Pursue Your Passions: While waiting, focus on your passions and interests. Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Not only will this keep you occupied, but it will also help you meet like-minded individuals who share your values.
  

• Community Matters: Surround yourself with a strong support system. Connect with friends, family, or fellow believers who can encourage you, provide wisdom, and pray with you during this season.

• Pray Continually: Continue to pray fervently about your desire for a loving relationship. Ask God to grant you discernment and patience as you wait for His perfect timing.
  

• Keep an Open Heart: Sometimes, we can inadvertently close ourselves off from potential connections because we're too focused on a specific timeline. Be open to unexpected opportunities and allow God to lead you to the right person in His own time.

Remember, you are not defined by your past, but by the beautiful future that God has in store for you. As you venture into the world of dating again, do so with a heart full of hope, faith, and an unwavering trust in God's plan. You are deserving of love and happiness, and when the time is right, you'll find that special someone who complements your life in the most extraordinary ways. Until then, keep shining, keep praying, and keep believing in the promises of a loving God. He's got you, sis!